God bestowed me with second baby, I am now a mother of two! So many felicitations and blessings were falling from all friends and relatives...it doubled all my joy! One lady gave me a warning though..." It's going to be so very difficult now, I am telling you. Being a mother of two is a tedious job!" To be very frank, it is!
Mine was not a normal delivery this time, it was Caesarian section. I was more debilitated than I thought and certainly more burdened than I thought! It was "the testing hour" ! I felt as if I was getting drowned in the whorls of water, a sudden cyclone had hit me and immediately I was reminded of that lady's warning. In a much depressed tone I said to myself how true was she! I don't know how but a kind of courage bestowed upon me and I thought I should at least try my way out!
I used to get so irritated saving my younger one from the elder one. She would not listen to me and take all the advantage of my passivity and helplessness. I behaved as if she was my biggest enemy that time!
I didn't need warnings nor a discussion on the problem and how every mom of two had to face it. I needed a way out! I needed to pause and think it over!
I realised I tackled what I expected and knew about better than what came as a shocking surprise. I would have been so thankful to someone who would have told me beforehand what I will come across and how should I deal with it!
But it was not warning but encouragement and strength that would and could have helped instead of a warning!
As of now I request the already mom-of-two not to scare the to-be-mom-of-two by giving warnings, just tell them to read the write up that's coming soon!
