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Saturday, 28 March 2020

HOME ZONE 3: EFFECTIVELY SUPERVISING BOREDOM

Introducing boredom as a tool of self expansion is revolutionary. Here effective supervision has its own unique role. It's particularly important to be alone, be silent, learn to observe things around, view them in all possible perspectives.....and most importantly watch your own self. Keeping a check on our thought process is a great skill.
If it is that being alone without books, TV or any gadget and without planning and thinking and worrying is even new to you....and you fear that you won't be able to lead kids into this....then there's a good news for you.
"Not in making them follow but in making them lead lies the secret of an effective supervision."
What you need to check on is that when you let a human enter silence.....new doors open up and now nothing can be scheduled or decided or limited. In this vastness the mind of this young sprout can go anywhere, to whatever extent and can generate enormous curiosity to learn and know. In this urge, they might want to experiment, experience or create something that might mandate some basic knowledge. So, you need to stay emotionally connected and permissible, ready with time and attention to answer if you know. If you don't know, partner her/him in finding the answers. Please do that with an open, scientific and logical mind that's not preoccupied with lame cultural statements. "That's what happens."
"World runs like this."
... and rotten stuff of that sort. Every WHY should either be answered or it's answer be sought after.
Let the gap between thought and action grow larger. Thought leads to impulsive curiosity and urges immediate action or experimentation.
This is where you can introduce step by step process.....thought, knowledge, analysis, curiosity, finding, judging the pros and cons, planning and then carefully executing it in steps and reflecting at every step!!!
Lead them into thought, contemplation and profound reflection. If this process of contemplation is instilled in the reflexes of the child, she/he is bound to shine....In any field. 

Teaching the art of Reflection shall be considered in my next post, HOME ZONE 4

Thursday, 26 March 2020

HOME ZONE 2: BOREDOM

Hi again...!
So no TV, no Phones, no I pad, no tabs.....
The big question remains.....THEN WHAT?
We need a replacement....because the KIDS ARE GETTING BORED.....!
We need to keep them busy and give them constructive options.
What is the solution to boredom....?
How to help children avoid getting bored...?

How much parents put in efforts to fill time and space of kids with some thing constructive......that adds to the personality of kids is beyond description. The zeal of an enthusiastic parenthood is at its peak in this era.

I just would like to bring to notice of all of you the most productive commodity of childhood.

In the nothingness lies the secret door to a world of creativity, thoughts, queries, self reflection, invention and discoveries.

In an age where every minute of our life is scheduled, where is the time to ponder, to wonder, to think, to feel , to observe, to analyse, to infer, to discover, to invent, to reflect upon the experiences, to acquire wisdom ?
All of this and more are the precious outcomes of what all parents want to avoid ......BOREDOM!
Wisdom is not legible in the pages of books, it's an outcome of keen observation of life and it's proactive reflection. It's the time devoted to self. It's the process of self healing.
Don't snatch away the most productive asset of this age ......BOREDOM. Let the young geniuses contemplate the mysteries of this universe all alone.

Boredom leaves time for self brain storming.
Now it's not for you to lecture all this to the kids. It's for you to understand it's importance.
Just slowly and steadily bring in the concept of spending time with self.

Newton was relaxing all alone under an apple tree, pondering and observing the apple fall...there is where the law of gravity comes!!!

Boredom is where thinkers are created.
Before you can make them love being with themselves....you need to know it's importance.
Don't fill their hours with the classes.
Leave some time to be bored!!!

This is just one important concept for parents.

No readymade solutions here. Only concepts and condiments!!! To help you make your own customised parenting recipe!!

To summarise:
1. Getting bored is counter productive so no need to find solutions of boredom for the kids.
2. Spending time with self, observing, analysing and thinking comes to an unoccupied brain.

Never the less, the kids need to be supervised and certain things be taught...
HOME ZONE 3 will come as a guide to effective supervision.

Sunday, 22 March 2020

HOME ZONE 1


Parenting is like mathematics, you need to understand the fundamentals. There's no use of solving one particular problem for you. 
Well, many parents are coming up and asking me how to keep their kids busy, what's the solution of their boredom, how to maintain our own peace tackling kids 24x7 and many more similar ones. HOME ZONE is going to be a serial blog for parents when their kids are at home at length. 
I don't want to give you any ready made solutions for such questions, I want you to understand the fundamentals of parenting which will help you in taking your own decision and a customised one according to your own needs, family environment, practicality and situation. I want to empower you with the confidence and applicability so that you don't feel disabled or dependent in a situation that's similar but not the same. 
It's not an easy pill. I'll make you use your mind and be creative.....I don't believe in giving ready made solutions that are just short cuts. And Short cuts lead to no success in long term. 

The most luring thing to do and the easiest give in is to hand over the tiny little screen addivtive as cocain to the child, or simply turn on the idiot box (TV). And this is an absolute No No!!! 

Wait for HOME ZONE 2 for furthering with this!!!!

COMING SOON!!!!