World has people of all breeds. There are times when one is under attack! Someone whom one trusts is often seen to break our trust. This is life and all your trials to save your child from these are futile. Only one thing we can gift them is a strong very strong immunity. A defence mechanism that can differentiate successfully between the self and non self and fight every kind of infection.
A child who is scared of ghost (for example), will need someone to sleep with him/her at night. Anyone can take advantage of this fear, world has its ruthless side! Someone might ask her to get into drugs, drinking or sex scaring her/him of the ghost (whose existence is doubtful).
Scare her of a simple injection today....ever wondered how she will take the labour pains!
Let her inherit your fear of lizard, I know a friend who sweats to death at the very sight of a lizard!
Grow up! She/he has to face the life as it is! She will have to face your death one day!
There is one fear that eats us inside out, the fear of rejection! It seems as if approval is something we thrive upon!
All these fear are leading her/him to an IMMUNOCOMPROMISED state of being. The state that results in the dreaded disease of AIDS!
We don't need to make them fearless, they are born that ways. We just need to stop ourselves to inculcate fear in them.
I will soon come up with real life story suggesting this. Meanwhile I guess I got my point across.
Type in your comments and catch yourself giving this dreaded fear to your children....and just discontinue.
There are alternative methods for every situation where you use this scaring thing!
You can email me at: olivegreenparentingclinic@gmail.com
I will answer you back!
A child who is scared of ghost (for example), will need someone to sleep with him/her at night. Anyone can take advantage of this fear, world has its ruthless side! Someone might ask her to get into drugs, drinking or sex scaring her/him of the ghost (whose existence is doubtful).
Scare her of a simple injection today....ever wondered how she will take the labour pains!
Let her inherit your fear of lizard, I know a friend who sweats to death at the very sight of a lizard!
Grow up! She/he has to face the life as it is! She will have to face your death one day!
There is one fear that eats us inside out, the fear of rejection! It seems as if approval is something we thrive upon!
All these fear are leading her/him to an IMMUNOCOMPROMISED state of being. The state that results in the dreaded disease of AIDS!
We don't need to make them fearless, they are born that ways. We just need to stop ourselves to inculcate fear in them.
I will soon come up with real life story suggesting this. Meanwhile I guess I got my point across.
Type in your comments and catch yourself giving this dreaded fear to your children....and just discontinue.
There are alternative methods for every situation where you use this scaring thing!
You can email me at: olivegreenparentingclinic@gmail.com
I will answer you back!
good one..
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